Dec 7, 2016
Stories of Hope
Shanjula
When Shanjula and her three children became homeless, she blamed herself and felt guilty for not being able to provide a safe place for her children. All she desired was to provide her family with something consistent and stable. Then, Shanjula found Family Gateway. She and her family arrived to the Center with nothing. Upon arrival, they moved into their own a room – a safe place to regain self-sufficiency. They were provided with basic necessities like food and toiletries – survival tools that most people take for granted. Shanjula received case management services to establish goals and to create a plan to achieve them, and her children had a stable, nurturing environment to learn and grow. She was overwhelmed by the love, compassion, and unity she felt at Family Gateway.
Today, Shanjula’s three children are either graduated or in college. Shanjula is working on her Masters degree and plans to start her own non-profit organization like Family Gateway to help change lives.
Alex*
In August of 2013, hard times hit Alex, his wife, and their three children. After losing his job, they moved from place to place trying to get their feet on solid ground. Alex and his family ended up at Family Gateway in the summer of 2015 and immediately felt a sense of security. His children had a stable place to grow and thrived in Family Gateway’s education and summer programming. Doors opened for Alex and his wife through case management services, enabling them to find jobs and to pay their outstanding bills.
Alex and his family now have their own place, and he and his wife have stable jobs. Alex is in the early stages of opening his own nonprofit to provide transportation for homeless elderly and veterans. He and his wife are grateful to Family Gateway for empowering them to regain self-sufficiency.
*This name has been changed to respect the privacy of the family.
Natalie*
At 18, Natalie had two young children and was struggling to make ends meet. She ran out of options and had no way to feed her family. That’s when Natalie heard about Family Gateway. As soon as she called, Natalie knew that Family Gateway was the agency to save her family. She could tell
that the wellbeing of her and her children was just as important to the staff at Family Gateway as it was to her; they felt comforted, loved, and respected at their new home. Natalie began taking adult classes while her children participated in the education and early childcare programs. Thanks to the case management services and budgeting classes, Natalie regained self-sufficiency and stability for her kids.
Today, Natalie works at Family Gateway, helping other families who come from similar situations. Every day, she seeks to encourage, inspire, motivate, listen, and provide hope to other children and families affected by homelessness.
*This name has been changed to respect the privacy of the family.
Miranda*
Miranda and her two children came to the Center after being evicted from their apartment. This was the first time Miranda and her family had experienced homelessness. Determined to transition into self-sufficiency, she quickly started job searching and got a job as a CNA at a rehab center. However, due to her recent eviction, a lot of apartments denied Miranda’s application.
Miranda developed a savings plan to pay back her previous landlord which helped her move into her own two bedroom apartment. Although Miranda worked long shifts, she prioritized her family and made sure that her children were enrolled in school and daycare. Her hard work was noticed by not only staff at Family Gateway but also her employer; Miranda was recently promoted as lead CNA.
*This name has been changed to respect the privacy of the family.
Theresa*
Theresa* remembers moving into the Annette G. Strauss Family Gateway Center as a young girl. Her mother was 21 and expecting her 3rd child. Her mother didn’t have any skills, and sadly her father was sentenced to 20 years in prison. Theresa and her mother and siblings were left out on the streets of Dallas…
…until Family Gateway took them in with open arms full of love and support. Theresa and her family moved into one of Family Gateway’s apartments. She was overjoyed to have her OWN room and a REAL bed. Wanting what was best for her and her children, Theresa’s mother cooked every night, helped them with their homework, and then read them a bedtime story. She attended life skills and parenting classes while her kids participated in afterschool and extracurricular activities.
Theresa has fond memories of the fun activities and events she participated in at Family Gateway. Theresa is now a college graduate with her own house, and she works for the Dallas Cowboys. To this day, Theresa proudly credits her success to Family Gateway for providing the support and stability her mother needed to regain self-sufficiency for their family.
*This name has been changed to respect the privacy of the family.
Nov 16, 2016
Three Client Stories from Suzanne P. Griffin, Executive Director of Brother Bill’s
A Grandfather’s Love
This past year neighbors have benefitted from Brother Bill’s Helping Hand programs in a multitude of ways. For the last fifteen years, a sweet couple has been raising three grandchildren. The grandmother’s health was such that she spent most of the time in bed, but the grandfather rarely misses a Grocery Store day and makes sure those grandchildren participate in every program we offer. He brings them to Soccer Camp, Basketball Camp, Back to School Carnival, and the annual Children’s Christmas Celebration. Last August the two boys went to summer camp with over 60 other BBHH campers and they regularly come to Super Saturday. Six months ago the grandmother passed away, and not long after that they learned the grandchildren’s father had died. Over the years Brother Bill’s Helping Hand has always been there for this family. We’ve delivered food when necessary, helped organize important legal documents, and been an encourager to the grandfather. We are grateful to have them as part of the Brother Bill’s Helping Hand family and to be there whenever they need us.
Finding a New Path
Twice a year for the past twelve years Brother Bill’s Helping Hand offers PathWays, a 6-week / 120-hour job training program for women. The group is purposefully kept small so the ladies can get to know themselves, each other, and the leadership team. Volunteers provide training in everything from interview skills and resume writing to women’s health concerns and time management. Each week they visit businesses to hear about what that company looks for in an employee and how to apply for a job at that particular business. The ladies learn about managing their money through a program called Faith & Finances, and each one has a personal financial coach who walks them through areas such as budgeting and determining the difference between wants and needs. They also learn the importance of relying upon God for direction in all things. Last Spring PathWays graduated seven ladies. Today five graduates are now working full-time and one is working part-time. Their lives are changed because of PathWays. The lives of family members are changed because a mother, daughter or wife is now able to help support her family, and she understands the importance of education, commitment and faith.
The Gift of Life
Brother Bill’s Helping Hand Community Clinic provides quality health care to uninsured adults living in West Dallas. Through relationships with practically every major health care system in the Metroplex, the Clinic is able to provide a variety of services. One of those services is free mammograms. Every other month Methodist Health System’s mobile mammogram unit comes to BBHH and provides mammograms for up to 25 women. After getting her first mammogram a year ago at BBHH one particular woman was diagnosed with advanced stage cancer. Immediately, the hospital started her on chemo and then radiation. For the past year Brother Bill’s Helping Hand has prayed for her and been an encouragement to her through letters, phone calls, and personal visits. In her own words, she says – “Last year they told me that I was sick with cancer. Thanks to the cards that Brother Bill’s sent me, and all the help I received, I have felt encouraged and strong. To me, the people at Brother Bill’s are like angels. I am sure that if I would not have come to this place, it is possible that I would not have known about my sickness. But Brother Bill’s saved me; they saved my life for now.”
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Nov 1, 2016
Toby*
Toby’s mother was homeless before he was born. He spent his childhood moving with her from one shelter to the next. Although Toby lacked stability growing up, he always had a plan for his life: finish high school, get his culinary degree and open his own restaurant.
But to meet his goals, Toby needed help. At age 17, he found the emergency shelter program at Promise House.
“Promise House gave me a place to stay. My case workers made sure I had what I needed so I could focus on my plans and goals for the future,” Toby said. “They really just made sure that I was all right.”
During his time in the emergency shelter program, Toby received shelter, food, clothing, counseling and life skills training. He graduated in June, and plans to double major in culinary arts and business at a local community college!
Alexandra and Kenneth*
Alexandra knew the challenges of teen pregnancy all too well; her mother and grandmother both had children when they were teens.
When Alexandra got pregnant at age 19, her mom – who struggled with drug abuse – kicked her out of the house.
Alexandra started looking for help for teen moms and found the Wesley Inn Program at Promise House. Once she enrolled in the program, she said her life started showing signs of improvement. She gave birth to Kenneth and began taking courses at Kaplan College. The Wesley Inn Program provided her with support she said she would never have experienced, including classes on how to care for a newborn and bond with her son.
“I came to Wesley Inn and the staff and volunteers really helped me buckle down and finish school while I raised my son,” she said.
This summer, Alexandra passed her dental assistant certification exam. Today she is working in her field and raising her son in her own apartment.
*Names have been changed to protect privacy of our clients.
